The Power of Positivity

In today’s world, it is rare that a person of any age will get a pat on the back or be told words as simple as “good job”. Positivity unfortunately takes a back seat to the negative in our culture. It is infrequent that we allow ourselves to speak of our feelings. It is rare when a person shows displays of affection in public or private. And it is these things that are so vital to our existence as humans. Without signs or words of encouragement people wither. Children do not prosper in school or in life, young adults flounder with choices, older adults succumb to depression and people of any age succumb to thoughts of suicide. How did we let it get to this? Our desire for being the best and having more probably was the insidious start. If a person gets too far into this thought process, than all else personal can disappear. Our country’s desire to be the best has always been driven by the undercurrent of money. Don’t get me wrong, we live in a great nation, but our priorities got out of whack. It is time that we turn inward a bit and focus on ourselves and others with love. It is time to focus on the positive things in this life and brag about them on TV, radio and at home. It is time to allow ourselves to see and appreciate beauty in our landscape and cities. Most importantly, it is time to see the good and beauty in each soul on this planet. It is really easy, just start at home. Step back and look at the person/people you are with, whether significant other, parents or children. Look at them without any preconceived notions or resentments. Genuinely ask how they are and what may be on their minds. Be sure to listen….. really listen. Listen without your opinions getting in the way. Honor their thoughts and words. Honor them for who they are. Appreciate that God gave you these people to share your life with. Encourage them to be positive and risk takers. Encourage them to see the positive in their lives. Assist them in putting things in perspective. Most of all show them love and support. The ripple effects of that one moment will spread infinitely and bring the same love and support to others and then back to you. Imagine a world free of negativity? It’s hard to see but is oh so possible. My words may seem trite. This ideal may seem impossible, but remember nothing is impossible. You just need to start with the first step. Be that impetus…..change your world……change this world.